How Do I let my brother in law down easy without hurting his feelings or making him think that I am Ungrateful?

She can take care of her own kid. If you don't like it then leave! Its his house. It wold be nice if you showed her the ways of America though. Why be so selfish! She only needs one room for a few months! Then you will be out anyways. Geez,yall are family!act like it! What...its good to use your family when you need it,but he can't get a little help from You!!! Bullsh*t